“Coping up with pain is difficult, but time too, heals pain. And after some time, you will see, in any case, as long as you wait, you will always come out better and stronger. And who knows, your ideal man may be some other guy waiting for you as well…”
“Tandaan mo, kung ideal sya, he will make the way, not you. You shouldn’t be doing anything, just wait.”
- a conversation with my brother
Just another heartbreaking story
I should be reviewing my notes as of this moment but then, I have read something that really caught my attention. I don’t know why I am so affected by “that” information… and all I can do is to ponder and to write my thoughts about it.
I guess 1, 2…or even 5 years or more is not enough to say that a relationship will last for a lifetime. It’s really sad to know that some of the couples that have spent enormous amount of days, months and years together will just end up as…friends. (Or worst, they end up as strangers.) I mean, what the heck went wrong? What could have been the reason this time that cannot be fixed by the two of them? Was it because of a third party? Falling out of love?
Is there really such a thing as “falling out of love”? Maybe. Falling out of love is a choice. But actually, it is incorrect to say “to fall out of love” since love itself is indestructible. It isn’t perishable. The choice to lose all its goodness and to ignore its existence, itself, makes one feel numb. And that’s why, the thought of losing it is just an illusion.
Even though I wasn’t the one in that situation, I could still feel the pain. How could they just throw all the memories away?
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Nakakahinayang. I don’t know what to say anymore.
When Pain Lingers…
This is what my eldest brother told me:
“Coping up with pain is difficult, but time too, heals pain. And after some time you will see, in any case, as long as you wait, you will always come out better and stronger. And who knows, your ideal man may be some other guy waiting for you as well. At un talaga ang da best na gamot, if you find someone better taking his place.”
